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Telehealth Therapy in New Jersey, New York & Connecticut — Feel Better Without the Commute

Family holding hands at the beach at sunset, symbolizing connection and support — Online Therapist NJ, NY, CT - Insurance Accepted

Online therapy for anxiety, depression, and life transitions across NJ, NY & CT. HIPAA-compliant. Insurance-friendly. Same-week appointments.

✓ HIPAA-Compliant • Private & Secure ✓ 1,200+ Telehealth Sessions Delivered
Horizon Blue Cross Blue Shield — in-network (NJ)
Cigna — in-network (NJ)
UnitedHealthcare — in-network (NJ)
Aetna — in-network (NJ)
TRICARE — see eligibility

In-network in New Jersey. New York & Connecticut: out-of-network; superbills provided.

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What’s hard right now?

Here are the most common reasons people start therapy and how we’ll tackle them together.

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Anxiety & Overwhelm

Racing thoughts, what-ifs, dread before bed. We’ll map triggers, calm the body, and shrink avoidance—one doable step at a time.

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Relationship Strain

Same argument, different day. We’ll slow the pattern, rebuild safety in conversation, and practice repairs that actually land.

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Parenting & ADHD

Transitions, homework, big feelings. We’ll set first-then routines, timer blocks, and consistent rewards for calmer evenings.

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Burnout & Stress

Always on, never done. We’ll right-size your week, set boundaries that hold, and rebuild energy without guilt.

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Life Transitions

New role, new city, new season. We’ll clarify values, set 2–3 anchor habits, and pace change so it sticks.

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Grief & Loss

When the floor drops out, we slow down. Gentle support, meaning-making, and rituals for the days that hurt most.

How therapy helps: step by step

Plan, practice, tools, support. Simple, repeatable changes that fit your week.

Plan

First we set 1–2 clear goals and define what “better” looks like. You’ll leave session one with next steps, not guesswork.

  • Target the highest-leverage routine first.
  • Pick metrics you can actually track.

Practice

We rehearse skills in session so they’re easier at home—calm breathing, repair scripts, first-then routines, boundary lines.

  • Short “home practices” you can do this week.
  • Review what worked / tweak what didn’t.

Tools

Evidence-based approaches you can feel: CBT/ACT for anxiety & mood, EFT-informed skills for couples, PMT for parenting/ADHD.

  • Checklists, visuals, and quick reference cards.
  • No jargon—just what to try, when, and how.

Support

Telehealth across NJ, NY & CT; in-person in Rutherford (limited). HIPAA-compliant, private, and paced to your life.

  • In-network in NJ: Horizon, Cigna, UHC, TRICARE.
  • NY/CT: superbills for out-of-network benefits.

When to consider therapy:

  • You’re avoiding things you value because of worry or conflict.

  • Evenings feel chaotic and everyone’s on edge.

  • You want tools you can use this week, not just insight.

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Care that fits life: Telehealth in NJ, NY & CT

Free 30-min consultation → secure intake → first session online.

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Parenting Support — Telehealth

ADHD/behavior tools and calmer home routines you can start this week.

  • Format: 55-minute 1:1 sessions; small-group cycle when open.
  • Focus: routines, transitions, boundaries, follow-through at home.
  • Tools: first-then, timers, reward systems, evening flow, practice scripts.
  • Start: Schedule a free consult; join the waitlist if group is closed.
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Couples Therapy — Telehealth

Repair patterns, rebuild communication, and plan time that supports “us.”

  • Format: 55-minute joint video sessions; individual check-ins as needed.
  • Focus: conflict cycles, reconnection, parenting teamwork, trust repair.
  • Approach: skills-based, warm, structured homework you can try this week.
  • Start: Schedule a free consult to align goals and map your next step.
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Family Therapy — Telehealth

Lower conflict, strengthen connection, solve problems together.

  • Format: 55-minute secure video sessions; flexible mix of parent/child time.
  • Focus: routines, boundaries, sibling conflict, transitions, communication.
  • Tools: step-by-step plans, visual routines, practice scripts for home.
  • Start: Schedule a free consult and leave with a clear first-step plan.
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Individual Therapy — Telehealth

Practical tools for anxiety, stress, and mood at a pace that fits life.

  • Format: 55-minute private sessions by secure video.
  • Focus: anxiety, stress, burnout, life transitions, sleep, routines.
  • Approach: skills-based, supportive, small actions between sessions.
  • Start: Schedule a free consultation to define goals and next steps.
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Start today in 3 steps

Anxiety, relationships, parenting & ADHD, life transitions. Start with a free consult and a simple next step.

Schedule your free consultation

Submit a brief form with your availability. We’ll confirm by email and send simple next steps.

Get matched & scheduled

Our team reviews your goals and availability, then schedules your first session with the best-fit clinician.

Begin care by secure video

Meet online from home, set clear goals, and leave with practical tools and a plan for your week.

Private • HIPAA-compliant • No commute

Testimonials

What clients are saying about working with us: compassionate care, practical change, steady progress.

“Dionne is an absolutely amazing therapist—and an even better human being. She helped me immensely through multiple losses. Her calm, caring presence and direct, honest guidance made all the difference. She truly cares.”
Individual Therapy Client, NJ Grief & Life Transitions
“Dionne has demonstrated a remarkable balance of fairness, directness, and empathy… Her compassionate listening ensured we felt heard and never judged… Her thoughtful questions encouraged meaningful self-reflection… We gained clarity and practical tools that strengthened our marriage.”
Couples Therapy Clients, NJ Relationship Counseling Clients
“Living Optimally has been exceptional. Dionne creates a safe, comfortable space, offers specific and practical feedback, and holds you kindly accountable. Sessions are well-prepared and engaging, scheduling is flexible, and the tools we practice have led to real, positive change.””
Individual Therapy Client, NJ Anxiety & Life Skills Client

All testimonials are anonymized to protect client privacy.

Results vary, but most people start to feel steadier when small routines stick.

Ready to Start Therapy?

Licensed therapists for individuals, couples, and families: telehealth across NJ, NY & CT. HIPAA-compliant and private.

55-minute weekly sessions: Individual, Couples, Family, Parenting Support

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Practical, evidence-based strategies you can use this week

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Anxiety, relationships, parenting & ADHD, life transitions. Start with a free consult and a simple next step.

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In-network in NJ (Horizon, Cigna, UHC, TRICARE). Superbills in NY/CT. HSA/FSA accepted.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Quick answers about therapy services in NJ, NY & CT insurance, telehealth, and who we help.

  • Your therapist reviews your intake, explains confidentiality and telehealth consent, and asks about goals, history, and what feels hardest right now. Expect a calm, get-to-know-you conversation (about 45–55 minutes) and a simple next-step plan at the end. We’ll also confirm cadence (often weekly) and share crisis resources and messaging norms.

  • Anyone physically located in NJ, NY, or CT during sessions. We also offer limited in-person appointments in Rutherford, NJ.

  • If you have insurance in NJ (Horizon BCBS, Cigna, UHC, TRICARE), your copay may be as low as $0-$30. For NY and CT clients, we provide superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. We'll verify your coverage during your free consultation—no surprises.

  • Yes. We use HIPAA-compliant video platforms (never Zoom or Skype). Your sessions are encrypted end-to-end, and your records are stored on secure servers. We'll never share your information without your written consent.

  • Absolutely. Telehealth means no commute—log in from home, your car, or a private space during lunch. We offer evening and weekend slots, and you can reschedule up to 24 hours in advance.

  • Research shows telehealth therapy is just as effective as face-to-face for anxiety, depression, and most concerns. Many clients find it easier to open up from a comfortable, familiar space.

  • We'll help you switch at no extra cost. Finding the right fit is essential.

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